{"id":28837,"date":"2019-02-27T19:30:36","date_gmt":"2019-02-28T00:30:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.backtobasicslearning.com\/?p=28837"},"modified":"2019-02-27T19:34:04","modified_gmt":"2019-02-28T00:34:04","slug":"learning-through-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/backtobasicslearning.com\/learning-through-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning through relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">A few times a week, after full days in the classroom, I travel to Back to Basics\u2019 Wilmington office to spend some time onsite. Although I\u2019m able to work remotely on marketing projects, there\u2019s something about the buzz of the tutoring center that motivates me. I find an open office, open my laptop, and settle into work with a background soundtrack of tutors and students chatting about calculus, or essays, or vocabulary words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s always laughter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s always encouragement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>And there\u2019s always learning<\/em>\u2014 you can hear it in the enthusiasm, and you can almost feel it in the air. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We innately know that students learn best from people whom they like, respect, even love. In classrooms (or tutoring centers) where relationship quality is central to learning, we can see and hear this concept in action. In his recent NYTimes column, David Brooks <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/01\/17\/opinion\/learning-emotion-education.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"examines (opens in a new tab)\">examines<\/a> neuroscience that proves the truth of what he experienced as a professor. And in her 2013 TED talk, veteran educator Rita Pierson reminds us that those relationships may matter more than any other factor in learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Every kid needs a champion | Rita Pierson\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SFnMTHhKdkw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I wonder how much time in my fifteen years in the classroom that I\u2019ve spent teaching class-size groups of students, and how much time I\u2019ve spent building relationships 1-on-1? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As an art teacher, I\u2019ve taught classes of up to thirty students, and even managed to get them all to (sort of) build coil pots at the same time. The more I think about it, the crazier this whole concept seems. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Break down class time into units, do the math, and the ratio usually ends up at roughly 2-3 minutes to spend with each student during a period, if I\u2019m focused on 1-on-1 learning. That\u2019s not much. That\u2019s the time it takes me to like three more accounts on Instagram, trying to boost B2B\u2019s presence. Click, click, click. Check in, check in, check in. 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:550; line-height:18px;\"> View this post on Instagram<\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\"><div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\">A post shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/back2basicsde\/\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px;\" target=\"_blank\"> Back to Basics Learning<\/a> (@back2basicsde) on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2019-02-27T13:01:15+00:00\">Feb 27, 2019 at 5:01am PST<\/time><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So, teachers economize. We try hard to deliver instruction that will reach the masses, while we stand in front of the room, realizing we\u2019ll never reach every student today. We try to build student engagement so students will seek out learning on their own. And then we celebrate when students come back for more, or spend an extra hour working on a project that challenges or interests them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Contrast that with the buzz that surrounds me as I create social media content at Back to Basics. What I hear in the offices around me sounds like relationships building and growing. When I hear shared laughter, I know that teacher and student have established a connection. I hear \u201cyou can do it\u201d maybe more than any other phrase, and I never hear students disagreeing with the <a href=\"https:\/\/backtobasicslearning.com\/2018\/12\/margiespeer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"encouragement (opens in a new tab)\">encouragement<\/a>. I hear questions and answers, and I hear students thinking out loud. I hear confidence growing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>There\u2019s no economy in 1-on-1 learning.<\/strong> For the time that teachers and students spend together, it\u2019s entirely focused on connecting with each other and engaging with the subject. No distractions, nothing shallow, no hurry, just pure focus on learning through relationship.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pierson says, &#8220;We show up to work when we don\u2019t feel like it, we listen to policy that doesn\u2019t make sense, and we teach anyway\u2026 because that\u2019s what we do.\u201d Not every teacher and student can find opportunities for 1-on-1 learning during every school day. <em>But every student deserves the opportunity to learn through relationship\u2014 and every teacher deserves support to build the sort of relationships that nourish learning.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe that\u2019s what pushes me to commute to Nationwide after my school day in Pennsylvania. In the office at Back to Basics, I hear and feel reminders of the best experiences I\u2019ve had as a teacher\u2014 the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"times (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/teachingcraft.net\/2013\/10\/15\/the-tryers\/\" target=\"_blank\">times<\/a> I\u2019ve been able to focus on <a href=\"https:\/\/teachingcraft.net\/2017\/05\/30\/teaching-ben-to-throw\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"connections (opens in a new tab)\">connections<\/a> with my students. It motivates me to keep finding those moments during the school day, elusive though they might sometimes be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"background-color:#f59326;color:#ffffff\" class=\"has-text-color has-background\"><em>\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/speakers\/rita_f_pierson\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Teaching and learning should bring joy (opens in a new tab)\">Teaching and learning should bring joy<\/a>\u2026 How powerful would our world be if we had kids who were not afraid to take risks, who were not afraid to think, and who had a champion\u2026 an adult who will not give up on them, who understands the power of connection, and who insists that they become the best that they can possibly be?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>Kate&nbsp;coordinates&nbsp;marketing&nbsp;projects&nbsp;for&nbsp;Back&nbsp;to&nbsp;Basics&nbsp;and&nbsp;teaches&nbsp;high&nbsp;school&nbsp;art&nbsp;in&nbsp;Nationwide&nbsp;County,&nbsp;PA.&nbsp;You&nbsp;can&nbsp;read&nbsp;more&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/teachingcraft.net\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"on&nbsp;her&nbsp;site (opens in a new tab)\">on&nbsp;her&nbsp;site<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We know that students learn best from people whom they like, respect, even love. 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